Right on, George. It's all about socialization into any peer group. Call it indoctrination or paying your dues, earning stripes, whatever you will. It's essential that ALL members engage in the process which fully integrates them into the community. You can't force it, you can't short circuit it, you can't get a bye. It is, simply what it is.Noob, newbie, new guy, is not inflammatory nor is it disrespectful; it's simply a term for someone who has not been around very long. It's really no different than a rookie being called a rookie on a baseball or football team.
I think where you feel like the context/tone was taking against you is because generally when a thread like this gets heated it is best for newbie's to stand back watch and learn IMHO.
Hell, I'm a noob myself and proud of it.
Robby
I know a few (just a FEW - somewhere around 10%) rookies who take insult in being called a "rookie". And most others accept the title as a part of the process of becoming something other than a rookie.
What's really ironic - most of the people (if not all) that don't have issues with being called a "rookie" and don't believe it to be some kind of demeaning thing - seem to survive better in the long run. And they are also the group that believe in the rules, follow the rules - and if they want to change the rules follow a tried and true process for changing the rules...
...the other group of "rookies" constantly walk around with a chip on their shoulder. They hate the title, they hate the rules and they generally hate being told what to do. Management is there for no other purpose then to make life miserable for them. Coworkers with tenure are always "talking down" to them. They are the "dinosaurs", after all - what do they know - their ideas are antiquated, they are not nearly as knowledgeable as the "rookie's"...
I sometimes wish I could understand the thought process. And then other times I just figure - it is what it is...
Wilkey