Hey Sippinsoma - what is a shame is that if you are planning on sticking around this board, you've sort of dug yourself a hole - but certainly not one that you can't get out of
You need to understand that trust is one of the most important elements on this board. Trust is something that must be earned. That is why I've been very active trading with others and participating in passes so that these kind gentleman will learn that I'm trustworthy. What you're not really getting is that you came into our home and are, in a way, asking us to trust a stranger when it needs to be the other way around.
Earlier this afternoon I read your post, before anyone responded and this thread got to 3 pages, and my first reaction was that this is sort of bad business. One of the first things new guys need to do before suggesting or offering such transactions as you did, is to get to know us. I thought to myself, this smells a little sour and perhaps even dangerous. Why would a guy come in and on his first day offer to do everyone a favor? Why such a hurry? If there isn't anything in it for you (which with all due respect, I don't really believe), then give it a little time; there shouldn't be any rush.
The last comment that I'll make is that as a new guy, if you have any desire of sticking around, you ought to just suck this up, learn from it, and stop bantering with some of the other guys. What you're sort of showing us is that either you don't have much respect for CP and us and/or you don't really care about being a brother. If you really had intentions of sticking around for a while, I doubt that you would carry on as you are. Therefore, my advice is to just drop it and get to know us. Despite the sh!t your getting (which much of it is well deserved) this will all blow over and be forgiven if you learn to embrace the CP community rather than fight it (just give it some time!) Also, the guys here are great brothers and watch out for one another (which is another reason for the skepticism and reaction you are getting). There is so much generousity on this board that you probably don't understand right now. Therefore, the guys here don't take too kindly to someone (especially brand spanking new) coming in and immediately trying to make deals or selling items without playing by our rules. Remember... this is our house, not yours (and I don't mean to offend you by stating this, but it is the reality). Stick around for awhile, get to know us, and you can share with us what makes the CP community special.
Just my 2 cents and advice for what it's worth - take it or leave it.
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