Congrats and best of luck with the wedding. Normally I'd second the milder Davidoffs, but since you said that many in your family are smokers, I'll vote for the Padron 64 Exclusivo maddies - or even better, spend a little extra $$$ and get Torpedos (I think these look more classy). Or ask around the family and find out if there's a popular cigar everyone likes. Cigars at a wedding are a nice touch, especially if you take a few minutes after dinner and go table to table with the box and hand them out yourself. I did that at my wedding - doesn't take more than a few minutes - and folks were most appreciative of the personal gesture.