How long should one have to wait.......

[JOE.M.]

Why don't you guy's grow a pair and just call him out! I have all ready posted my thoughts on this clown when he posted up personal info on a member now it's time to circle the wagons and show him for what he is before some other clueless sap gets screwed! This guy is a POS! I remember the days when this would not be tolerated and the hammer would drop from every angle. :angry:



My Edit!
P.S. You should add to the poll "I don't care, I don't have the balls to do anything about it!"

 

[MilesMingusMonk]

Why don't you guy's grow a pair and just call him out! I have all ready posted my thoughts on this clown when he posted up personal info on a member now it sis time to circle the wagons and show him for what he is before some other clueless sap gets screwed! This guy is a POS! I remember the days when this would not be tolerated and the hammer would drop from every angle.

There goes Joey again, rocking the boat... :laugh:

 

[Allofus123]

I voted 2 days and would have no problem with anyone taking longer if its communicated. Thats just me. Do a trade....take care of business.

Two months? Is this an active trading member here? I find that others are more apt to chime in after they're aware that others are experencing the same thing from an individual.

Court is now in session.

 

[bfreebern]

My now 2 month stale trade

 

[hudsonvalley]

I would have guessed KB. Took him forever to pay up on a box split I was in on. Doesn't always keep his word. Insists he is a nice guy and stand up trader but the evidence to the contrary keeps mounting.

In my opinion there is no reason to ever let anything go more than a week without giving good cause. "I've been busy" is not a good cause. Dog ate my homework bull****....

 

[stevehawk]

On the other hand, I 've had to wait as long as 3 weeks to receive.  I did not like that...  :whistling:

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Try 2 months on for size.

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Waaaaayyyyy too long... I'm surprised you've been as patient as you have. I don't think I could have been so understanding.

C'mon KB... wassup? ???

 

[mrjinglesusa]

On the other hand, I 've had to wait as long as 3 weeks to receive.  I did not like that...   :whistling:

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Try 2 months on for size.

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Waaaaayyyyy too long... I'm surprised you've been as patient as you have. I don't think I could have been so understanding.

C'mon KB... wassup? ???

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Been there, done that. Never again.

 

[Allofus123]

Been there, done that. Never again.

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Exactly what does that mean? Not saying anyhing is part of the problem.

 

[ggiese]

KB - I see it as you can take this one of two ways.... ???

A) You guys are a bunch of a$$holes - quit picking on me... :angry:

B) This is a wake up call - sorry I've been such a slacker - I promise to either not trade any more until I get my $hit together, or I will step it up a notch and promise to make this right with all concerned TODAY. :blush:






Choice A would be bad....

My .02...

 

[Ironworker]

I would say you get the package and turn it around the next business day or at most the day after that.

If you have 10 people in a pass and everyone took 5 days to turn it around including shipping time the pass would take 80 days.

I would be disappointed if I had to wait 80 days for the pass to reach my house.

I would definitely look for a smaller pass with people who trade within a reasonable amount of time.

**** always happens. Other than that get on with sending the package.

That’s my 2

Rich

 

[KayakinBoy]

I would have guessed KB. Took him forever to pay up on a box split I was in on. Doesn't always keep his word. Insists he is a nice guy and stand up trader but the evidence to the contrary keeps mounting.

In my opinion there is no reason to ever let anything go more than a week without giving good cause. "I've been busy" is not a good cause. Dog ate my homework bull****....

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I mailed a money order, it was lost in the mail. I got cigars in the mail a month later and thought he had received them. It took my bank a week to cancel the lost money order and I mailed the box spliter a check.

 

[hudsonvalley]

I would have guessed KB. Took him forever to pay up on a box split I was in on. Doesn't always keep his word. Insists he is a nice guy and stand up trader but the evidence to the contrary keeps mounting.

In my opinion there is no reason to ever let anything go more than a week without giving good cause. "I've been busy" is not a good cause. Dog ate my homework bull****....

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I mailed a money order, it was lost in the mail. I got cigars in the mail a month later and thought he had received them. It took my bank a week to cancel the lost money order and I mailed the box spliter a check.

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Dog ate my homework. How did I guess?

 

[Lee]

I would have guessed KB.  Took him forever to pay up on a box split I was in on.  Doesn't always keep his word.  Insists he is a nice guy and stand up trader but the evidence to the contrary keeps mounting.

In my opinion there is no reason to ever let anything go more than a week without giving good cause.  "I've been busy" is not a good cause.  Dog ate my homework bull****....

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I mailed a money order, it was lost in the mail. I got cigars in the mail a month later and thought he had received them. It took my bank a week to cancel the lost money order and I mailed the box spliter a check.

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Looks like a pattern to me....You need to get it straight, or face the consequences water lilly boy!

 

[BkCloud114]

OK.... enough of this lame ass bull****......

 

[hudsonvalley]

John, I am not taking this to PM. I think it would be better at this point to just let the sunshine in. Here is the deal as I see it.

We have a pretty good little community here. I have gotten a lot out of this place and I think you have, too. And I haven't added anything significant to it. Other people made it the way it is before I ever Googled this place. No one needs the cigars in my humidor. No one needs to read how I detect the subtle nuance of cedar in the Connies I smoke. No one cares that I have been a loyal Yankee fan all the way back to 1996. You and I have benefited from others free of charge attention and input into it. Thoughtful rules have evolved, refined over time from bad experiences. And you and I have reaped the benefits.
(Orchestra begins playing patriotic-type music under Hudson's speech)

And because we are all human there are the occasional problems. These have to be addressed. It is against forum ettiquette to be a dick. Well, that's not true. Then we would only have about 6 boring members. Let me start again. It is against forum ettiquette to the kind of dick that doesn't promptly and carefully fulfill his obligations.

No one forces anyone to be in a pass, make a trade, or be involved in any way. There is no rule against posting something stoopid. Every kind of BOTL from FOG to FNG is accepted within these hallowed pixels. The important thing is once a commitment is made that one's word is kept. THAT is what makes this little thing work, IMHO. And when just a few fudge that thing it screws thing up a lot. And when repeat offenders don't get a public tune up then the overall trust between all of us is diminished. The community diminishes in value.

Do I think you are a theif? No.

Do I think you drag your feet to the point of disrespect? That is my current thinking.

It doesn't matter how many successful and prompt interactions you may have had with members here. In my opinion anyone with more than one or two of these kind of issues in one year is peeing on our shoes. And you and I haven't even been here a year and you seem to have more than one or two of these problems with members here. They all seemed to not want to make an issue of it. Look what that got. I don't want lower standards.

Better, at this point, for you to face your slacker ways. They are bordering on Idunnowhat. Two months to complete your end of a deal? Unacceptable. No excuse is good enough. Not someone I would want to deal with. And not the kind of community I would want to particpate in if it is tolerated.

 

[Tenpin]

Nice speech Hudson!
(And long enough that CC may not even catch the one spelling error!)

Jim

 

[Allofus123]

No one cares that I have been a loyal Yankee fan all the way back to 1996.

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Great post and right on the money except that one little line.... almost makes me feel like one of my friends just told me he's turning gay. Not that there's anything wrong with that..... :whistling:

 

[BkCloud114]

Perfect........

This should not be in PM's...... KB would be one of the first ones to agree with that. A slack-ass should be called out in public......

John, I am not taking this to PM. I think it would be better at this point to just let the sunshine in. Here is the deal as I see it.

We have a pretty good little community here. I have gotten a lot out of this place and I think you have, too. And I haven't added anything significant to it. Other people made it the way it is before I ever Googled this place. No one needs the cigars in my humidor. No one needs to read how I detect the subtle nuance of cedar in the Connies I smoke. No one cares that I have been a loyal Yankee fan all the way back to 1996. You and I have benefited from others free of charge attention and input into it. Thoughtful rules have evolved, refined over time from bad experiences. And you and I have reaped the benefits.
(Orchestra begins playing patriotic-type music under Hudson's speech)

And because we are all human there are the occasional problems. These have to be addressed. It is against forum ettiquette to be a dick. Well, that's not true. Then we would only have about 6 boring members. Let me start again. It is against forum ettiquette to the kind of dick that doesn't promptly and carefully fulfill his obligations.

No one forces anyone to be in a pass, make a trade, or be involved in any way. There is no rule against posting something stoopid. Every kind of BOTL from FOG to FNG is accepted within these hallowed pixels. The important thing is once a commitment is made that one's word is kept. THAT is what makes this little thing work, IMHO. And when just a few fudge that thing it screws thing up a lot. And when repeat offenders don't get a public tune up then the overall trust between all of us is diminished. The community diminishes in value.

Do I think you are a theif? No.

Do I think you drag your feet to the point of disrespect? That is my current thinking.

It doesn't matter how many successful and prompt interactions you may have had with members here. In my opinion anyone with more than one or two of these kind of issues in one year is peeing on our shoes. And you and I haven't even been here a year and you seem to have more than one or two of these problems with members here. They all seemed to not want to make an issue of it. Look what that got. I don't want lower standards.

Better, at this point, for you to face your slacker ways. They are bordering on Idunnowhat. Two months to complete your end of a deal? Unacceptable. No excuse is good enough. Not someone I would want to deal with. And not the kind of community I would want to particpate in if it is tolerated.

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