CigarStone
For once, knowledge is making me poor!
- Joined
- Mar 7, 2007
- Messages
- 11,706
Keep up the bullshit and you may not have a choice.
Lol, MY bullshit.Keep up the bullshit and you may not have a choice.
So you're OK with noobs responding to being educated about community norms and expectations by saying they don't care because they don't agree with them and then calling people things like jag offs? How is that the "FOGs" fault? "I'm not going to take this laying down"? Give me a break.I came here a few months ago to join a community & to learn; learn more about a hobby, cigars, that I have enjoyed sine June, 2007.
Before I joined here I read this; it sounds great.
"CigarPass was founded in early 2000, with a mission to become the friendliest and most knowledgeable online cigar community. More than a decade later, I’m happy to say that we succeeded! Back in the 90’s, there were only a few cigar forums around, however one thing I noticed was the lack of camaraderie. It seems people would flame each other left and right, and the administrators would hand out bans unjustly and unfairly. Unless you were part of the “in crowed”, you weren’t welcome. How does this build a true community?Why join our community | Cigar Forum and Community | CigarPass.com
CigarPass was founded in early 2000, with a mission to become the friendliest and most knowledgeable online cigar community. More than a decade later, I’m […]www.cigarpass.com
In 2000, I decided it was time to establish a true cigar community, where people not only respected one another, but also looked out for each other. I believed in creating a community where members were treated like adults, and were accountable for their own actions. Many forums have moderators; I’ve never been a fan of moderators. In my experience, a moderator oftentimes becomes power hungry and begins to take their job a bit too far. You also cultivate members who try to become buddies with the moderators, which eventually creates that in-crowd type mentality.
You’ll notice that CigarPass has only 1 administrator and zero moderators. We are a self-moderated cigar forum, meaning that it’s up to the members to uphold up our rules and culture."
I like the concept of self moderation but at the end of the day it is up to the old timers aka the FOGs to be quite a bit more patient with the noobs. I have seen the FOGs throw plenty of ball busters at other long time, or more established members, and the ones that have been here long enough to be FOGs don't seem to mind taking a friendly ball busting from some members. On the other hand, it would seem that more often than not some of the established members are quick to judge most noobs, often using tactics & language that go directly against forum rules.
If established members are not going to self moderate the forum when established members throw out personal insults, particularly against newer members, then how could anyone here expect the place to grow, to stay positive, and to attract a growing base of BOTL? This forum, and any other forum that seeks to be self moderated can be a very positive place, for the FOGs & for the noobs but that will not happen unless the personal insults by the few established members comes to a stop. The established members have to take the responsibility of keeping the FOGs in check when the FOGs are the ones using personal insults, insults everyone knows are against the rules. If the established members don't self moderate this, then how can the noobs be expected to do anything but follow the example?
This thread, among plenty of others, is a perfect example of how CP's self moderated concept is not working. Just as @Pugman1943 stated in his post #49, there is way too much negativity, in this thread. That is a truly bad thing for CP. We are all here because we love cigars; we are all BOTL.
I understand that everyone is not always going to agree but CP is a great place & CP doesn't need the juvenile personal insults. I'm as guil;ty as anyone but I'm still here & I hope to continue to be a part of this community. We all have to tame it down with the personal stuff. I'm sure @Rod would agree.
Come on BOTL; let's all move forward & let us all make CP better.
This group is critical to everyone.
I can't say I had a problem when I joined, even if I don't use punctuation correctly, still use it.Yeah, I've noticed that with a few forums, which is why I stopped going to them.
Not interested in being part of a community that acts like that when there are plenty of others with great communities
So you're OK with noobs responding to being educated about community norms and expectations by saying they don't care because they don't agree with them and then calling people things like jag offs? How is that the "FOGs" fault? "I'm not going to take this laying down"? Give me a break.
While this is a cigar forum, cigars really aren't the reason so many of us consider it home at all.
I guess so.Well no; I'm not OK with that, nor was I implying I'm OK with that.
I guess you may have missed the entire concept of my post.
I never said I didn't caWell no; I'm not OK with that, nor was I implying I'm OK with that.
I guess you may have missed the entire concept of my post.
I never said I didn't care or that I didn't agree with them.So you're OK with noobs responding to being educated about community norms and expectations by saying they don't care because they don't agree with them and then calling people things like jag offs? How is that the "FOGs" fault? "I'm not going to take this laying down"? Give me a break.
While this is a cigar forum, cigars really aren't the reason so many of us consider it home at all.
ORLYHow does it waste your time?
You could have easily just ignored the thread.
The people who are actually answering the question, i have thanked.
Its those being nothing but dog piling asshats that have been the problem.
Dont like the thread?
Ignore it and move on.
Its really that simple
There's a reason grammar and punctuation are considered important to a forum.I came here a few months ago to join a community & to learn; learn more about a hobby, cigars, that I have enjoyed sine June, 2007.
Before I joined here I read this; it sounds great.
"CigarPass was founded in early 2000, with a mission to become the friendliest and most knowledgeable online cigar community. More than a decade later, I’m happy to say that we succeeded! Back in the 90’s, there were only a few cigar forums around, however one thing I noticed was the lack of camaraderie. It seems people would flame each other left and right, and the administrators would hand out bans unjustly and unfairly. Unless you were part of the “in crowed”, you weren’t welcome. How does this build a true community?Why join our community | Cigar Forum and Community | CigarPass.com
CigarPass was founded in early 2000, with a mission to become the friendliest and most knowledgeable online cigar community. More than a decade later, I’m […]www.cigarpass.com
In 2000, I decided it was time to establish a true cigar community, where people not only respected one another, but also looked out for each other. I believed in creating a community where members were treated like adults, and were accountable for their own actions. Many forums have moderators; I’ve never been a fan of moderators. In my experience, a moderator oftentimes becomes power hungry and begins to take their job a bit too far. You also cultivate members who try to become buddies with the moderators, which eventually creates that in-crowd type mentality.
You’ll notice that CigarPass has only 1 administrator and zero moderators. We are a self-moderated cigar forum, meaning that it’s up to the members to uphold up our rules and culture."
I like the concept of self moderation but at the end of the day it is up to the old timers aka the FOGs to be quite a bit more patient with the noobs. I have seen the FOGs throw plenty of ball busters at other long time, or more established members, and the ones that have been here long enough to be FOGs don't seem to mind taking a friendly ball busting from some members. On the other hand, it would seem that more often than not some of the established members are quick to judge most noobs, often using tactics & language that go directly against forum rules.
If established members are not going to self moderate the forum when established members throw out personal insults, particularly against newer members, then how could anyone here expect the place to grow, to stay positive, and to attract a growing base of BOTL? This forum, and any other forum that seeks to be self moderated can be a very positive place, for the FOGs & for the noobs but that will not happen unless the personal insults by the few established members comes to a stop. The established members have to take the responsibility of keeping the FOGs in check when the FOGs are the ones using personal insults, insults everyone knows are against the rules. If the established members don't self moderate this, then how can the noobs be expected to do anything but follow the example?
This thread, among plenty of others, is a perfect example of how CP's self moderated concept is not working. Just as @Pugman1943 stated in his post #49, there is way too much negativity, in this thread. That is a truly bad thing for CP. We are all here because we love cigars; we are all BOTL.
I understand that everyone is not always going to agree but CP is a great place & CP doesn't need the juvenile personal insults. I'm as guilty as anyone but I'm still here & I hope to continue to be a part of this community. We all have to tame it down with the personal stuff. I'm sure @Rod would agree.
Come on BOTL; let's all move forward & let us all make CP better.
Before I joined here I read this; it sounds great.
"CigarPass was founded in early 2000, with a mission to become the friendliest and most knowledgeable online cigar community. More than a decade later, I’m happy to say that we succeeded! Back in the 90’s, there were only a few cigar forums around, however one thing I noticed was the lack of camaraderie. It seems people would flame each other left and right, and the administrators would hand out bans unjustly and unfairly. Unless you were part of the “in crowed”, you weren’t welcome. How does this build a true community?Why join our community | Cigar Forum and Community | CigarPass.com
CigarPass was founded in early 2000, with a mission to become the friendliest and most knowledgeable online cigar community. More than a decade later, I’m […]www.cigarpass.com
In 2000, I decided it was time to establish a true cigar community, where people not only respected one another, but also looked out for each other. I believed in creating a community where members were treated like adults, and were accountable for their own actions. Many forums have moderators; I’ve never been a fan of moderators. In my experience, a moderator oftentimes becomes power hungry and begins to take their job a bit too far. You also cultivate members who try to become buddies with the moderators, which eventually creates that in-crowd type mentality.
You’ll notice that CigarPass has only 1 administrator and zero moderators. We are a self-moderated cigar forum, meaning that it’s up to the members to uphold up our rules and culture."
I like the concept of self moderation but at the end of the day it is up to the old timers aka the FOGs to be quite a bit more patient with the noobs. I have seen the FOGs throw plenty of ball busters at other long time, or more established members, and the ones that have been here long enough to be FOGs don't seem to mind taking a friendly ball busting from some members. On the other hand, it would seem that more often than not some of the established members are quick to judge most noobs, often using tactics & language that go directly against forum rules.
If established members are not going to self moderate the forum when established members throw out personal insults, particularly against newer members, then how could anyone here expect the place to grow, to stay positive, and to attract a growing base of BOTL? This forum, and any other forum that seeks to be self moderated can be a very positive place, for the FOGs & for the noobs but that will not happen unless the personal insults by the few established members comes to a stop. The established members have to take the responsibility of keeping the FOGs in check when the FOGs are the ones using personal insults, insults everyone knows are against the rules. If the established members don't self moderate this, then how can the noobs be expected to do anything but follow the example?
This thread, among plenty of others, is a perfect example of how CP's self moderated concept is not working. Just as @Pugman1943 stated in his post #49, there is way too much negativity, in this thread. That is a truly bad thing for CP. We are all here because we love cigars; we are all BOTL.
I understand that everyone is not always going to agree but CP is a great place & CP doesn't need the juvenile personal insults. I'm as guilty as anyone but I'm still here & I hope to continue to be a part of this community. We all have to tame it down with the personal stuff. I'm sure @Rod would agree.
Come on BOTL; let's all move forward & let us all make CP better.
You joined CigarPass January 2, 2021 - you have been a member of CigarPass 148 days?
Read more, but please post less.
I doubt if he will find it. Advice appears to be like kryptonite to him.Although it may seem strange, this is the best and most time tested advice you’ll find in this thread.
Although he may seem strange, this is the best and most time tested advice you’ll find in this thread.