cohibasurfer said:
Moki ... I think you've missed the point IMO. That doesn't mean I think of you as I do Shuji and Company. I think your a great member to date. I just think you missed the point of my post.
For the rest of the CP members click on the provided link. Tell me I'm wrong with an explanation. I don't think so though.
I hear ya. I mean, I could go either way on it. On the one hand, perhaps he just has a lot going on in his life, and needs to sort things out.
On the other hand, there were a lot of odd things going on. He started a pass, and then cancelled it because the dog ate his cigars (??) Then he couldn't complete various passes because of issues with his wife.
Alright, **** happens, and I realize if you're in a low emotional place, you can sometimes neglect things. However I agree with Allofus123 that regardless of where he is at, the best thing to do would be to live up to his responsibilities. It would be the best not just for the people here whom he owes various things, but also for himself.
I also find it a little odd that he had the time to set up an entire cigar web site/web board but not to send out his passes/trades, but perhaps he had that in the works for a long time.
I'm not making excuses for him, I'm just willing to let him redeem himself and live up to his responsibilities, rather than ostracize him for a failing that happened at a bad time in his life.
Then again, I'm not one of the people who owed a pass/trade to. If I was, I think I'd be pissed.
If all of his debts aren't settled by the end of this upcoming week, all sympathy/benefit of a doubt -- at least from me -- has gone right out of the window.