Nothing to be embarrassed about. Cob is a great smoke, I have briars that cost hundreds of dollars and I still smoke a cob regularly. I have never had Red Cap, but I googled it and it seems to be an aromatic Virginia. If that is too your liking I would suggest you look for Virginia/ Perique Va/Per blends. I would peruse the Cornell and Diehl and GL Pease lines over at SmokingPipes.com. Both offer a good variety of quality tobaccos at reasonable prices. Once you narrow down some choices you should read some of the reviews at tobaccoreviews.com (though keep in mind that one man's garbage is another man's gold). I would recommend you get your hands on a Va or VaPer blend and a classic English blend and go from there.