I don't see anything wrong with any of my posts. Yes I did PM you over the matter. I was trying to handle it like an adult. I didn't make a judgement error. Look back at the orginal post. What did he say that made you feel as though you needed to flame him? He asked a question about what people like in their humidors. What was out of line with that? I didn't ask to delete anything did I? Maybe I did and I forgot. Maybe you should reread it.
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"Anyone seen telling newer members (or any member for that matter) to keep quiet and do as they say will be suspended and/or banned. Time spent at CP does not entitle anyone to mistreat others. If you can’t kindly point someone in the right direction, then please don’t."
Maybe you should read these as well. Here is the link.
http://www.cigarpass.com/community/forum-rules/
I tend to stay out of these threads and watch the vets do the teaching, I even felt the need to get another opinion from a tenured member before chiming in here. And after this post I for once feel the need to speak up after reading this.
You didn't see anything wrong with your posts, but you missed the point of the thread entirely, not to mention completely misinterpreted what you read.
Since your having trouble stomaching this, let me break it down for you.
I don't see anything wrong with any of my posts. Yes I did PM you over the matter. I was trying to handle it like an adult.
Adults take responsibility for their words, and if you can't handle it publicly, then don't feel the need to chime in when you have nothing constructive to add.
I didn't make a judgement error.
Really? I'd say that you did something wrong in order to throw yourself under the bus in such a short amount of time. Challenging the membership over how situations are handled, and have always been handled when you have no idea of how this board functions....well, I'd call that an error. Apparently we have different interpretations of good judgment.
What did he say that made you feel as though you needed to flame him? He asked a question about what people like in their humidors. What was out of line with that?
Bill wasn't flamed in any way, his intentions were briefly brought into question, and he handled the situation without getting all huffy-puffy and he kept a cool head, which to many of us, shows that someone is willing to work with the membership at CP and has a decent amount of integrity. He answered the questions, and worked everything out in the open, like an adult. You on the other hand...
Does it really matter what other site someone is a member of?
Only if it is a website that doesn't care about it's membership, a website where sellers that have a tendency (and in some cases a track record) of ripping people off and making significant profit by flipping smokes are protected. Not to mention that it's coincidentally where when someone tries to call a profiteer or scammer out to protect others, said individual either gets banned, their passwords scrambled, or their post gets deleted. Active membership at those type of sites doesn't reflect well on someone that plans on being a member here.
Does it cause you or you family harm?
Cigar Pass is like a family to many of us, so the participation of scammers/ profiteers and individuals that associate with them is not overlooked or taken lightly. We protect and look out for each other and memberships here have the tendency to result in the formation of lifelong friendships of men (and women) that have a common hobby and passion.
We don't take kindly to profiteers or scammers, we frown on those that do business with and support them (which permits them to continually peddle and flip their smokes), and we don't appreciate it when individuals that support or frequent sites where their friends are getting ripped off and don't speak up to let them know they are being taken or scammed.
So to answer your question, yes, it can cause harm to us and our family here. Many senior members here have voluntarily taken on the responsibility of "protecting the flock from wolves," though I don't expect someone as oblivious as yourself to understand that underneath everything is only good intentions to protect the friends and brothers that frequent CP from some of the scum that try to take advantage of others.
If you dislike that site so much how would someone know that someone is a contributing member there?
It's called looking out for one another.
I figure if I have nothing nice to say it would be easier to just not say anything at all. Maybe your just the type that likes to cause a fuss.
And maybe you don't understand how membership here works, and why some of these guys act the way they do. Everyone contributes here in different ways, and many of these gentlemen make sure that CP's membership doesn't get taken advantage of or mouthed off to by a one month wonder that thinks he understands everything. After 1.5 years on this board, I still have not seen or experienced all of what these guys have, but over my tenure It's become pretty obvious why these situations are handled in the manner that they are.
"Read more, post less" is something that you should really take to heart if this is such a difficult concept to grasp. Staying out of controversial threads when you feel the need to throw in your inexperienced .02 is the best advice you could receive as a new guy. I still don't feel like it's my place to be jumping in here, but I hope that maybe, just maybe you will understand that sometimes it's better to learn about a community before criticizing it or it's members.
It's better to see how these situations pan out in the end, and with time (if you stick around) you will see not only why situations in threads like this arise, but hopefully you will eventually understand it. Apparently it's proven a difficult concept for you to grasp though.
It's pretty obvious with this post that you don't understand how things happen around here. As others pointed out, we don't delete threads or topics. If you slipped up, you slipped up...take responsibility for what you say and do....unless of course, you're hiding something.
Maybe now you will have an understanding of how you missed the point and misinterpreted what you read.
Edit: Few typos.