I would like to put my two cents in here. I wasn't going to at first because I thought it might seem like a group of guys that have been around awhile were piling on the new guys/host, after things got a
little out of hand. I hope this comes out in the constructive tone it is meant as and not hypercritical.
I too have a problem with some things in the Lawyers, Guns, & Money Pass.
Since I've been here in regards to passes some rules were flexible across the board, others were to be strictly adhered to. Not even the pass host was to deviate from these, and it's been considered bad pass etiquette to do so, as it sets a precedence for others being able feel these things can be changed.
#1 would be the value for value and stick for stick. I've seen this preached time and time again in the past. It needs to be as close as possible, and discussed as much as needed. Especially, when most participants are new. Past host can change rules like it's acceptable to exchange non Cuban for Cuban, but price differentials over .50 should be scrutinized by the group. Being ok with the trade almost a $1.00 off because you want to try that cigar, or don't want to seem too rigid does more harm than good.The exchange has to ALWAYS be stick for a stick. Not three sticks for that Behike I want. This along with rarity and age factoring sometimes as well when proposing P&T's It can be a bit of work, but that's the whole point, to teach everyone reading and participating about these cigars we are trading for. Not to make it all seem petty.
This quote from my first "Training Pass" here was required to teach newer members do's and don'ts at the time is a good example of that thought.
cohibasurfer said:
Let me start off by saying this is a great idea for a pass.
After reading through this last play, I think it was handled great by both parties. I know alot of people think that .10, .25, even a .50 difference is kinda ticky tack to dicuss. But it's plain and simple. The line has to be drawn so that everyone planning to play in passes understands. Once you allow small discrepancies to fly then slowly but surely, it gets taken to the next level. The easiest way to keep this from happening is to not allow any IMO.
The most important part of listing puts and takes come down to them being listed what put, was for what take, exactly. I think it's rude and insulting when players list takes and puts in a group for everyone else to figure out what was for what. When you are making selections, you know what cigar your putting to replace what you took, so you should list it that way. Again... when your in a pass... it's going to cost you. Plain and simple.
Mistakes will happen. When they do, just handle it like adults. Leave your ego at the door. This was a perfect example of how to communicate. Knowlege was passed on to many, not just the two involved.
Nice job! :thumbs:
#2 I think everything should be transparent as this whole site has been since the beginning. Discussion (even if heated) shouldn't be looked at as "disruptive". Again, this is how everyone learns. This is how everyone knows everything is satisfactory. It doesn't sit well with me to know pretty much the experienced member help is taking place behind the scenes. I as a CP member/non-participant/participant want to be able to see the questions being asked, and how the voice of experience responds. Some might weigh in and disagree respectfully, then a good thought provoking conversation takes place. Telling someone they're experienced, but you don't want them posting has me scratching my head........ That's not saying you can't privately ask anything though.
Things were adhered to here in this newbie pass example, but we still managed to have a lot of fun