I've never really bothered to play by the rules but I do adjust my score (when I bothered to write it down) when I "cheat". Say for instance, my ball lands in the woods. If I know I've a greater chance of hitting a tree and having the ball ricochet back at me then I have of getting it out of the woods then I'll give myself a stroke penalty and toss it onto the fairway. If I think I might have a chance I'll give it a go. To me it's like a pick up game of Basketball. Sure there are rules and a score, but the goal is just to have a good time. There is usually four of us who play. I'm decent (thank you lessons), my one buddy is really good (he's been playing since he was 14), one is about the same as me, and one is piss poor awful. All of us have a good time though, because we don't take it serious and just have fun. I've never liked being paired with people who take the game deadly serious. It's a public golf course, have some fun man.