BBS is quite a funny guy. But you wouldn't know that since you are new here. It is pretty uncool of you to come into our "home" and make a borderline rude comment disguised as humor because you included a wink emoji to two well established and respected members. You asked if we liked the ashtray. Some members told you no, and you seem to have been a little put off by that. You then offered the ashtray to BBS and he politely declined. If you don't get the response that you want to an opinion question, does that give you the right to insult someone?