LOL thank you all. I'm a very lucky guy and she is a saint for putting up with me. I do have to say I think I found the rare good one though. He parents are 3rd generation German and part of the German society club so she’s got some nice values instilled in her. She encourages my cigar smoking, doesn’t care if I drink or have friends over to drink. There is almost always a hot meal waiting for me for breakfast on the weekends or dinner when she wasn’t at work. She's a nurse supervisor going for her masters so she’s naturally caring and makes good money. Plus she's a huge football fan, for out 1st and 2nd year of dating she got me Packers tickets.Plus when I was laid up for a full month out of work she really stepped up and helped with the bills a ton and really helped me get going again so I kinda think I’m stupid for not having married her sooner.
All that stuff aside I think I found an Idea I like. I'm gonna reach out to a few ISOM vendors and see when the boxes for this month and year come in and by 2 or 3 boxes. I'll have 1 one on my wedding day and one every year on my anniversary