when you put the disc in, and it prompts you with those options, just cancel out of it.
Right click on your start button and go to explore. Find the drive the disc is located on, then highlight the drive. WHen you find the files, click on one, then press ctrl+A, which will select all! Then, hit ctrl + c, which will copy.
Now find the new folder you would like these songs to go to, when you are in that folder, hit ctrl + v, that will paste and copy them. repeat process as needed!
EDIT, one more thing, look in your tray, which is located probably in the bottom right hand corner of your screen, on the task bar. scroll your mouse over the icons, if you see one for Itunes, right click it and disable it!