When I found out Brian was sick and in a coma I was devastated. You always hold out hope for the best because you never want to think that something like this can happen to someone that you are close to. Now that he's gone, I'm not sure what's going on inside my head or my heart. You guys knew how generous that Brian was here on the board, but I knew how generous he was behind the scenes. He never wanted the recognition that came with it, he just loved helping people and what he did for my family and I over the summer when my wife lost her job, I still haven't gotten over yet. I never got to meet the man I called #1 but I had spoken with him on the phone many times. I always felt privileged that I was able to speak with him because he always told me that he doesn't have many friends because a lot of people couldn't handle the was he was...he spoke his mind no matter the situation or the person. I was lucky enough to be a person that he considered a friend. He would always try to encourage me during my family's hard times this year when I'd speak to him. The one thing that seemed to bother Brian more than anything was that we (people as a whole) never took the time to smell the roses and realize that what we had in family was the most important thing in the world. He always told me that you can never do too much with your family and it seemed like here in America, life goes so fast for most that they didn't spend enough time with those they love. I bought in to what Brian was trying to tell me (thus my sig tag) and I feel like a better person because I try to do as much with my family now as I can without saying "no, we'll do it later" or "I'm busy now".
Those of you that have been here a while, know exactly what Cigar Pass has lost over this holiday. Those of you that are new and really didn't get to know Brian or see what he did for this community need to read through some of the stuff he's done here and you'll find out what it takes to truly be called a Brother. We have lost a Brother whose generosity and love for this community will never be matched. I have lost a mentor, a confidant, a "guidance counselor", but most importantly, I've lost a friend.
Brian, thank you for your friendship Brother you will never be forgotten..