Buddy,
Keep your head up, your shoulders square, and your burn even. Do not give up on any aspect of your life. Do not let her dictate how you feel. You have friends all over the world who are willing to open their homes and humidors to you, and that means you can get out of town for a while, any time you want.
Having only *heard* about Jim's fishing vacations, I gotta warn you that you'll come back a changed man. If you play your cards right, you'll still wear pants. If not, well, we'll start treating your image links even more carefully than Moki's. :sign: