Thank you for that, Toaster. I'm dealing with a bad influence friend for my 10 year old right now. Thankfully, they leave the country this week. I like and approve of her other friends here in the village, but I still worry to death about exactly what you say. Very well spoken.
As for Amy Winehouse, I got her CD off of iTunes a few years ago (the one with Rehab), and actually listened to it quite a lot. She should have been more than a punchline in history...