Man, I can't imagine using anything but a torch. Just torch the sucker and smoke it! Now, for better cigars, I take greater care. I first gently heat the foot for about 15 seconds, and then light it up. I just don't have the patience fooling around with wooden matches or other such things (but that's just me). For most of your smokes, I believe a torch lighter will do the trick! Look on eBay or cigarbid for many options.
In fact, if your interested, I've got an extra colibri torch lighter that I don't really use that much - if you want I would be willing to trade you it for a few smokes. It's not a real expensive Colibri lighter, but is of fine quality and works great (I've only used it for 2 weeks - got it as a gift). After owning many torch lighters, Colibri, in my opinion is the way to go.