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He finally did it!

cohibasurfer

one day older than dirt
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After 3 loooong grueling years, my Son, who will be turning 21 in December, has agreed to go to rehab. As some of my close friends know, 2 days before his 18th Birthday in '04, I had to ask my Son Corey to leave the house. He had become a full blown meth addict. Lieing, stealing, ditching school, not coming home. Being a single working Father of 2, it was impossible to protect his sister of 5 years younger. I had already done the intervention thing when he was in 8th grade. I Put him through a very expensive 90 rehab program twice.

Their Mother who is and has been a meth-head since before my Daughter was born ( Deanell is 15 now). I had also put her through rehab twice before I finally gave up and divorced her and took the kids (which took almost 2 years of court battles). She was absolutely no help, as a matter of fact, she did the sh!t with him leading up to the point I asked him to leave.

Well to make a very long and extremely difficult 3 year battle for his soul short. I did the tough love, watching him destroying his life. I greived his destruction, all the time caring for his Sister (who is a handfull but doing great as a Sophmore). The only condition I set on him returning home was, that he go through a free drug rehab called Teen Challenge. It's a 1 year Christian rehab program. Anyway, He called me last Thursday out of the blue asking me to take him there. I hadn't heard from him in almost 6 months. Well of course I agreed. They only induct on Tuesdays, IF they have room. Today is that day! I'm praying they have the room for him. Prior to today (actually the day of the phone call), I took him to the Police station to remand himself on several warrants. As per our court system, they just cited him out with a court date, AGAIN! This time though, it will work for him. Because instead of being able to just continue his old ways, he now wants to begin tratment until he goes infront of the Judge.

So if any of you that have stayed with this story, would kindly say a little prayer to give my Son the strength to kick this awfull addiction, his Sister and I would surely appreciate it.

Peace and Love


Smoke on....
 
Awesome Michael! My wife and I have been praying for your son for quite some time now. :thumbs: This post brought a smile to my face. :D
 
I'm praying for him, and you and your daughter.
 
Having two daughters myself, I can't imagine the agony and pain you've lived through and the joy that you must now feel. All my prayers and best wishes to you, your family, and especially your son.
 
cohibasurfer - I'm glad to hear that today your son is in reach of life. Addiction is a pervasive illness, progressive in nature. Your son is not amoral or "weak". The real addict has a body that cannot take it and a mind that cannot leave it (substances that is). I know only too well what your son is going through. I hope him the best. Teen Challenge has had much success treating addicts. They offer long term treatment in a thrapeutic community model approach. As important as the treatment is, his continued participation in recovery and recovery groups in his community is going to be crutial to his long term sobriety. I wish him him the best in this endeavor. Don't ever hesatate to be in contact with me.

Prayers with you and your family

mac
 
Oh wow. I'm so happy to hear this, although I'm too new to have been aware of the situation. As a father myself, I fear having to handle this with my boys as they grow up. You've done a great job handling things through this very moment, and you will continue to do so because I can see the tough stuff you're made of.
 
Wow, i didn't know the story, but we all know the power of prayer, and i will include your family in my prayers.
 
Rehab works for those who want it. I pray he will want recovery and get hooked up with a 12-step program when he gets out. Great news though.

Addiction really is a killer. I too have expereinced the deadly effects of addiction. However, there is hope through 12 step programs---It works if we work it. ;)

Peace
 
Wow, what a story. I hope all works out for you and your son, addiction is a horrible thing. You and your family are in my thoughts.
Rob
 
Hey Michael, I understand what your going through and know the struggles as a parent. Cheers to you brother and my families prayers are with you and yours.


David
 
I've got tears in my eyes and prayers in my heart for you and your son, bro. I'm wishing you all the best. Keep us posted on how this goes.
 
Sending good vibes your way. :thumbs:

The best part of this is that he has come forward and wants the healing...excellent.

Brian
 
I am very glad to hear that he has taken that big step of recognizing that he needs (and asking for) help.
Addiction has nearly destroyed members of my family, and I will keep your family close to my heart. Best to you and yours.
 
My wife and I both have brothers that are recovering addicts, so we know all to well what a relief it is when they finally realize what they've done. Congrats on your sons new found clarity and many best wishes to you and yours.
 
That is wonderful news! Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
 
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